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Picking the Right Wedding Ring

Ten Things You Need to Know Before Picking the Right Wedding Ring

The wedding ring, a symbol of everlasting love and commitment, is one of the most significant purchases you will make for your wedding. As with any big decision, hindsight is 20/20. Here are ten things I wish I knew before embarking on the quest to find the perfect wedding ring.

1. Start Early

I underestimated how long it can take to find or create the perfect ring. Custom designs, engravings, and even certain sizes can take weeks or even months to be ready. Starting early can save a lot of stress.

2. Set a Budget

Like with other aspects of a wedding, it’s easy to get carried away. I wish I had set a firm budget for the ring to narrow down options and prevent overspending.

3. Consider Lifestyle

I didn't realize how much my daily activities could affect my ring choice. It’s important to pick a ring that suits your lifestyle. For example, if you work with your hands a lot, a more durable material and design might be ideal.

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4. Think Long-term

Trends come and go. What’s in vogue now may not be in five or ten years. I wish I had considered timeless designs that would remain classic through the years.

5. Know Your Metals

I was surprised by the variety of metals available - gold, platinum, titanium, tungsten, and more. Each has its pros and cons regarding durability, price, and appearance. It's important to research and understand these before making a choice.

6. Sizing Matters

Fingers can swell for various reasons including weather, exercise, or even the time of day. I wish I had known to size my ring under different conditions to ensure it’s comfortable at all times.

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7. Think About Maintenance

Some rings require more maintenance than others. For example, white gold needs to be re-plated over time to maintain its color, while platinum is more low-maintenance. Considering the maintenance required can save time and money in the long run.

8. Pairing with Engagement Ring

If you or your partner have an engagement ring, it’s essential to consider how the wedding ring will pair with it. Will they sit comfortably next to each other? Do the metals and styles complement one another?

9. Engraving and Customizations

Adding an engraving or custom element to the ring can make it truly unique. However, I wish I had known to factor in the additional time and cost that these personalizations can require.

10. Understand the Return Policy

I learned the hard way that it’s crucial to understand the jeweler’s return or exchange policy. In case the ring doesn’t fit or isn’t what you expected, knowing your options for return or exchange can save you headaches.


Choosing a wedding ring is an exciting and emotional journey. Being aware of these ten aspects would have made my experience smoother and more enjoyable. So, take your time, do your research, and remember that this piece of jewelry holds a lifetime of memories.